I’m having a disagreement with a colleague and need help resolving it

If a dispute or concern arises between you and a colleague, you may try first to resolve it amicably between yourselves. It can be helpful to meet with the Ombuds, who can:

  • Facilitate informal resolution processes
  • Help you determine how to handle a challenging situation
  • Discuss how to approach a fellow community member who has made an offensive or insensitive comment
  • Assist when you are uncertain what Duke policies or procedures apply to your situation
  • Assist when you don’t know what individual or university department is appropriate to go to for an answer to a specific question or to obtain a particular service
  • Helps when you feel as if you have been unfairly treated by anyone on campus
  • Engages in “shuttle diplomacy” to help solve a problem between you and another person
  • Helps you evaluate and select among a variety of options to address a concern with another person or department

For more information, visit ombuds.duke.edu. To schedule a meeting, email ombuds@duke.edu. To better protect confidentiality, please do not send a detailed message - just indicate, “I’d like to meet with the Ombuds.”

Tips for approaching an informal conflict resolution discussion

 I’ve already tried, or am not comfortable with, an informal discussion, and I need my department to intervene

I want to confidentially discuss my situation with someone

Your postdoctoral appointment should be challenging, but it should not be traumatic or hostile. A hostile environment is one in which poor communication, gossip, scolding or blaming, favoritism, coercion, competition, back-stabbing, manipulation, and/or abuse occur on a regular basis.

If you are experiencing a hostile environment created or exacerbated by sexual, race-based, or gender-based harassment, please see the sections on addressing those types of situations.

If you are experiencing a hostile environment due to other hostilities or power dynamic concerns, the next step is to speak to your Faculty Mentor, HR or Business Manager, or Department Chair.

I am experiencing harassment in my environment

I want to learn more about seeking help from my department or school

This guide was adapted from material created by Duke PhD Kirsten Overdahl for the Graduate School. If you have questions about this guide, please email Molly Starback, Director of Duke Postdoctoral Services, at molly.starback@duke.edu